Saturday, January 28, 2012

Declaration of dependance.

I must admit, I am totally dependent on Patrick.  He knows what the hell people are saying and can get stuff done.  This is sort of a tough pill to swallow for me.  I was so used to filling out all the checks to pay the bills, and making sure the insurance was done and paid for, I guess, just managing the home.  Sometimes, I get a little ahead of myself and try to do something without Patrick.  I still really do need his help with most everything.  Today I am reminded of this.  Although, I did get my own video rental card which is a big deal.  Patrick had to fill the whole form out for me.  And I have, more than once now, ordered food and ended up with twice as much food as I intended or accidentally ordered something I did not want.  I guess I know how to say YES in Japanese too well...I really need to learn how to say NO politely.  On a high note, I did manage to politely tell the lady at the ramen place in the food court that I did not want egg in my soup.  I win!  Sort of.



This is a big deal!

2 comments:

  1. It's a mega-ultra-massive big deal. :D

    I can get by, but anything legal/official stumps me. I often think I suffer from aphasia here in Japan ...

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  2. I am glad you can appreciate this. I have to be able to do things on my own. Even if it is just renting videos. The legal stuff is way beyond my grasp. It seriously took three months just to get my spouse visa. Without Patrick, I would have been illegal!

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